Why do I do it?


By Citizen Slacker
August 3 2011

Strangely, this is not directly about the Falcons, despite the title.  I have confession to make, nothing that would put my mortal soul in danger, but I expect to get a few funny looks once this is read.

Before that though, ask yourself this, why do you follow the fortunes (or famine) of the Falcons? Is it the style of rugby, the atmosphere of the games, a chance to unwind, yell, sing, shout & generally vent your emotions in a way that you can not in normal society?

 

Is it the camaraderie of the terraces, not just fellow Falcons fans, but the other supporters we meet on the road & on their travels? The ability to meet the players? Why did you start attending games?

 

The first game I came to see was a cup match against London Irish, it snowed through much of the game meaning that if you didn’t slip over because the porta-cabin loos were on the wonk, you did because you slipped on the floor.

 

I went because I wanted to watch a game of rugby, as I hadn’t done so since leaving Uni. I hadn’t played a game in almost 15 years, but stood on the slippery bank where the South Stand now sits, the smell of grass & mud, the sound of big men making big tackles took me back to being a child, the comfort of being part of a club, watching a game being played.

 

As I recall, the Falcons lost, but I was hooked enough to come back.

 

Something else clicked in my head that day too. I eventually quit smoking & returned to playing after a 17 year gap between games.

 

Back in my old position of hooker (occasionally the world’s slowest wing, but I tend to scare other wingers at the first ruck) I’m back in a club, playing the game I love. Part of that is the physical exercise, the blood, sweat & cheers that goes hand in hand with playing. Part of it is being back in a club where I’m on first name terms with just about everybody else. Much of it is the understanding between players that what goes on on the pitch stops at the final whistle & having a chat with your oppo’ in the bar.

 

The bumps & bruises took a little while to get back into, likewise a couple of concussions too many have meant the purchase of a scrum cap, but it is good to be back.

 

So, to the confession. I have never scored a try in a competitive game. There, I said it. I’ve scored plenty in training, I even managed two during the beach rugby tournament at Whitley Bay last year (both disallowed by an unsighted, officious ref, but I’ll take the moral victory), but never during a competitive game.

 

Indeed, I can even only admit to coming close on three occasions, once at schoolboy level I had been in a maul that had driven to within a yard of the try line & all we needed was an extra shove & I could have fallen on the ball, when our prodigious scrum half took the ball from me & scampered over. The other’s not even that interesting, which takes me back to the original point, why do I do it?

 

With the majority of Falcons’ games on a Friday I don’t drink at them anymore, the body just doesn’t function as well on a Saturday, especially after a skin full. The effort given to playing often means I’m not fit for much on Saturday night, especially the odd occasion where I’ve taken a knock to the noggin. A couple of fractured ribs, both little fingers broken, a huge black eye the night before I chaired my first child protection conference, & my last broken nose during training at the end of last season, meaning for a week I looked like a Neanderthal, all that & not even a try to my name.

 

Why do I do it? Because I love it. The game, the contest, the friends made, the hits made, the chance to be part of something bigger than just me.

 

So I’ll be back in the gym this week ready for the upcoming season, & back on the South Stand come the game against Bath. We may not win, we may not score many tries, but is that all there is?

 

What would you like to get off your chest?

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Why do I do it?
Discussion started by FalconsRugby.org.uk , 03/08/2011 12:26
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porta105
03/08/2011 13:37
Brilliant! (Sm152)

My confession... I haven't played since I left 6th form 7 years ago and I've been saying I will start again for the last 4 years, I need to take the plunge

Rugby Rose
03/08/2011 14:15
Started watching rugby in 6th form - mainly as an attendee of an all girls RC school it was an opportunity to see the boys from the counterpart school.

Continued whilst at uni - as many male friends there played for Uni and also for local team to Hall of Residence

Watched international games when possible over years - sadly never been to an international game in one of the 3 biggies in the UK - on list of things to do!

Started along with most people to take a bigger interest when in 2003 England won the World Cup - and became a Falcons season ticket holder not long after this -

Having never played am sure am lacking in some of the finer laws of the game -

That said I enjoy going to games - home and away and have now only Leicester as an away venue to visit - snow last year prevented me even getting to KP to go on the away bus!

Sadly I wish I had seen more wins in recent years and wish that relegation did not hang over us like the sword of Damocles each season

The banter and good cheer of the fans - ours and opposing team - always makes for good fun - and is probably one of the most positive things about being a Falcons fan.

Am hoping for a great season - but then I always do -

Jason1971
03/08/2011 14:49
My first exposure to the Falcons was the 165-5 drubbing of Rugby. After that, I only saw them a few times over the next couple of years and I never saw them lose.

It's been downhill all the way since then smiling smiley

J.

TouchLine
03/08/2011 15:09
Thanks to Slacker for contributing it. Any more of you out there with stories to tell?

lizard118
03/08/2011 15:41
That Exactly! Win or lose, that's why I follow the Falcons too. Just about the least corporate rugby club in the premiership.

citizen-slacker
03/08/2011 16:08
RR, never too late to start, Durtham run a women's team, although I believe training is at Bishop Aukland....

Rugby Rose
03/08/2011 16:41
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citizen-slacker
RR, never too late to start, Durtham run a women's team, although I believe training is at Bishop Aukland....

I really don't think its quite me - though obviously I appreciate the info -

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